Our next book club
A live one-hour Zoom discussion of Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder by Bill Eddy and Randi Kreger, hosted by Coach Brittany. Free and open to anyone.* One RSVP puts you on the invite list for every monthly Book Club going forward.
*For now. Book Club will eventually move inside our Solid Ground™ membership community for members only.
The book · Splitting
If you are divorcing or co-parenting with someone whose behavior fits the patterns Bill Eddy calls high-conflict (relentless blame, distortion, hostile emails, and legal aggression), Splitting is the field manual. Written by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Randi Kreger, it walks through what to expect, how to protect yourself and your kids inside the process, and what to avoid doing that makes it worse.
The book uses clinical language about personality patterns (borderline and narcissistic). We are not here to diagnose anyone's co-parent. We are here to talk about the patterns and the practical moves that help you stay grounded, keep the kids in the center, and stop feeding the conflict. Bill Eddy co-founded the High Conflict Institute; his frameworks show up throughout our coaching, including 1-to-1 coaching, the SAFE™ Ghostwriting program, and the 6-Week High Conflict Co-Parenting Skills Intensive™.
What we will cover on September 23
- The "splitting" dynamic and how it plays out in co-parenting
- Why familiar strategies (reasoning, over-explaining, apologizing) backfire with high-conflict personalities
- Documentation, patterns to look for, and what to keep vs. what to let go
- What Bill and Randi say about protecting your kids inside the process
- How to work with your attorney (and when to consider changing)
- Live Q&A on real scenarios you bring to the session
Coach Brittany
Hi, I'm Coach Brittany. I work with parents in high-conflict co-parenting every day at High Conflict Resolutions, and this book club is exactly the conversation I wish I could have with more people at once. Come read with me · we will keep it practical, honest, and grounded in real texts and messages.
More about Coach Brittany →Reserve your seat
Fill in your name and email and we will send the Zoom link 24 hours before we meet, plus a reminder the morning of. One RSVP puts you on the invite list for every monthly Book Club going forward.
Want more support than our monthly Book Club? Meet Solid Ground™
Solid Ground™ is our new membership community for high-conflict co-parents. A private space to work through messages with coach support, regulate before you respond, and be in real community with other parents who get it. Book Club stays free and open through the fall, then moves inside Solid Ground™ for members only.
Launching October 1, 2026. Waitlist members get early access starting September 28.
Join the Solid Ground™ waitlist