Our first-ever book club
A live one-hour Zoom discussion of BIFF® for CoParent Communication by Bill Eddy, Annette Burns, and Kevin Chafin, hosted by Coach Brittany. Free and open to anyone. After this, book club moves into our Solid Ground™ membership.
The book · BIFF® for CoParent Communication
If you have ever stared at a hostile text or email from your co-parent, felt your body flood with adrenaline, and typed a paragraph you knew you should not send, this book is for you. BIFF® for CoParent Communication is the co-parent-specific edition in Bill Eddy's BIFF® series, written with family law attorney Annette Burns and licensed counselor Kevin Chafin. It is short, tactical, and grounded in real texts, emails, and social media posts between co-parents.
BIFF® stands for Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm. Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., co-founder of the High Conflict Institute, developed the method as a response system for parents, professionals, and attorneys dealing with high-conflict people. It is one of the frameworks our coaches use with every client in 1-to-1 coaching, in the SAFE™ Ghostwriting program, and in the 6-Week High Conflict Co-Parenting Skills Intensive™.
What we will cover on August 26
- What BIFF® is and why it works on high-conflict people specifically
- The four elements: Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm
- Bill's 3 A's to avoid in every response · Admonishments, Advice, and Apologies
- Common mistakes when you first try BIFF® and how to fix them
- When BIFF® is not enough on its own · and what to layer with it
- Live Q&A on real communication scenarios you bring to the session
Coach Brittany
Hi, I'm Coach Brittany. I work with parents in high-conflict co-parenting every day at High Conflict Resolutions, and this book club is exactly the conversation I wish I could have with more people at once. Come read with me · we will keep it practical, honest, and grounded in real texts and messages.
More about Coach Brittany →Reserve your seat
Fill in your name and email and we will send the Zoom link 24 hours before we meet, plus a reminder the morning of.
Book club continues in Solid Ground™
After this first BIFF® session, book club moves into our new membership community, Solid Ground™. Members get monthly book discussions, live Q&A with our coaches, and a private space to work through high-conflict co-parenting alongside other parents who get it.
Learn about Solid Ground™