Strategic · Attuned · Focused on the children · Email/App-based.
In our SAFE™ Co-parenting Communication program, we teach you how to stop taking the bait that fuels the chaos cycle and keeps your kids stuck in the middle. We read your incoming messages from your high-conflict ex, help you settle the nervous-system hit, then partner with you to craft a reply, or advise you that no response is necessary. Think of us as your shock absorber.
Four principles. They turn a reactive reply into a strategic response. One that protects you in the moment and holds up in court six months later.
Every message is intentional, never reactive. Built for the long game.
Calibrated to your situation. Not templates. Not AI. A real coach who has learned your case.
HEW only: Health, Education, and Welfare of the children. The discipline that neutralizes most of what gets weaponized against you.
Always in writing, never live. Creates the record that protects you.
Co-parenting ghostwriting means having a trained team help you handle every hostile message from your co-parent without having to read it raw or respond in the moment. We work alongside you (we have a professional account through OurFamilyWizard, and work in TalkingParents, AppClose, email, or text). For each inbound message, we start by coaching you through settling your nervous system so you don’t spend all day activated. We coach you not only what response to send, but whether a response is even needed. We work together with you using BIFF® and our SAFE™ message standard.
This is communication ghostwriting, not legal ghostwriting. We do not draft pleadings, motions, or court filings. Some clients call this “coparenting ghostwriting” or “co-parent communication coaching.” Same service.
Coaches Michelle and Brittany also organize messages between co-parents and assemble relevant facts for use in legal declarations when clients are involved in a court lawsuit.
This ghostwriting service has saved my mind so much more than you will ever know. Best investment ever. I think everyone needs this service with co-parenting.
Thank you for your help with OFW. It is making a significant difference in my mental health.
Coach Michelle and her staff have provided immeasurable support over the last year. We started using Michelle's team to manage our OFW messages. They summarized what was being sent to us, in a regularly scheduled email, that stripped out all of the content that could be triggering to our nervous system. This allowed us to pause, write a thoughtful response that is in the best interest of the children, then move on.
It's truly been a pleasure working with you and Brittany over the past year and a half. I've learned so much and feel more confident navigating difficult situations. I'll be keeping Brittany's voice in mind, asking myself, "What would Brittany say?" before sending any messages.
Having her take over my OFW messages relieved an enormous amount of anxiety related to having to read my ex's messages. It helped to get a distilled version, minus inflammatory language, in my personal email box from a trusted person.
Having Coach Michelle and Brittany assisting in ghostwriting has been my best move. It gives me such a mental relief that I don't have to rethink things over and over.
Tell us what's happening. We'll point you to the right service (coaching, ghostwriting, court prep, parent coordination, or a course), even if that means we're not the right fit.
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