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Parent Coordination

Neutral · Child-centered · Dispute resolution
Father and son walking hand in hand at sunset, evoking the child-centered focus that Parent Coordination is built to protect

Parenting after separation can be challenging, especially when communication breaks down and emotions run high. Parent Coordination provides a structured, child-centered process to help parents resolve disputes without exposing their children to ongoing conflict.

At High Conflict Resolutions, LLC, Michelle serves as a neutral Parent Coordinator, guiding parents through difficult decisions while keeping the focus where it belongs: on the well-being of their children.

"You cannot control how the other parent behaves, but you can control how you respond."
  • Make shared decisions on parenting schedules, holidays, and transitions
  • Reduce hostility and misunderstandings in communication
  • Establish consistent rules, boundaries, and expectations for children
  • Learn skills to manage ongoing high-conflict dynamics
  • Minimize the emotional impact of conflict on the children
Results from coordination clients

What the handoff looks like after.

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Michelle has been a Godsend for myself and my family. After several sessions, I was able to establish solid boundaries and develop coping mechanisms for triggering situations. My family and I finally see the light at the end of the tunnel — we couldn't have done it without Michelle's help.
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S.F.
Washington, DC
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Michelle provided me with very sound advice on everything from children's therapist referrals to tips on how to be an effective, albeit temporary, full-time single parent. I have immense respect and admiration for the work Michelle does. To know what works and doesn't work in the world of high conflict co-parenting is invaluable.
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Marc
California
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Michelle's tools and coaching were very fulfilling and helped us reframe our focus and priorities in a toxic co-parenting environment. We still use her suggestions to this day. I would recommend her to anyone needing help navigating the tough dynamic of raising children under these circumstances.
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Andy
Ohio
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Thanks for all the help and support for our family. You were a spark of hope through some tough times. Divorce poison and alienation tactics are brutal, but we made it through and are glad we stayed ethical and didn't contribute nor escalate the negative tactics.
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Steph
Minnesota
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Tell us what's happening. We'll point you to the right service (coaching, ghostwriting, court prep, parent coordination, or a course), even if that means we're not the right fit.

*Coach Michelle does not practice family law and is not a licensed mental health provider. Her life coach training and certifications, as well as her 20+ years of litigation experience, enhance her understanding of high conflict; she often works hand-in-hand with the client's attorney. Coaching services are psychoeducational in nature (educational, skill-building, and strategy-focused) and are not therapy or legal advice. Information from High Conflict Resolutions, LLC reflects her personal opinion as a Coach and should not be relied on as legal advice or mental-health/therapeutic advice.
Frequently asked

Questions, answered.

The questions we hear most often. Don't see yours? Book a free 20-min consult.

What is a Parent Coordinator?
A Parent Coordinator (PC) is a neutral third party who helps high-conflict co-parents resolve day-to-day disputes without going back to court. PCs interpret the parenting plan, facilitate decisions about schedules, holidays, school, and medical issues, and document agreements. PCs are usually appointed by court order or stipulation.
What is the difference between a Parent Coordinator and a mediator?
Mediators help you reach a settlement, then their job ends. Parent Coordinators stay involved over time, months or years — to manage ongoing implementation of an existing parenting plan. PCs can also make non-binding recommendations on disputes when parents can't agree.
How is Coach Michelle qualified as a PC?
Michelle is AFCC-trained as a Parenting Coordinator, holds a Juris Doctor from California Western School of Law, and has 20+ years of experience with high-conflict family dynamics. She is a Martha Beck Certified life coach and and trained in Peter Levine\u2019s Somatic Experiencing\u00ae.
How do we engage a Parent Coordinator?
Most engagements start with a court order or written stipulation between both parents naming Michelle as the PC, plus a signed PC agreement that outlines fees, scope, and confidentiality. Initial consultations are free; ongoing PC work is billed hourly.